Three steps to stop the burnout cycle

“It’s happening again! How do I stop from burning out?”

This question really got to me. My client’s comment had me thinking about burnout in a different way, especially about how to prevent recurring burnout.

I also thought about how my client’s question might resonate with you.

Did you know burnout can be a recurring cycle?

Burnout is a Systems Problem

Burnout at work is NOT solely an individual problem. It’s the result of two sets of responsibilities colliding—that of individual employees and employer organizations. It’s a systems problem where workplace environments create recurring problems for individuals that perpetuate a burnout cycle. 

On the one hand, individuals desire balanced lives so that their work and personal lives work harmoniously. Things that contribute to individual burnout include:

  • Striving for perfection
  • Refusing to accept help with heavy family responsibilities
  • Frustration with the lack of autonomy or control over how tasks are completed 
  • Avoidance of tackling difficult relationships 
  • Settling for jobs with low-pay or without appropriate benefits
  • Not receiving appropriate acknowledgement of individual contributions

On the other hand, nonprofit employers want to provide excellent client services while budgets are squeezed tighter than ever. Staff burnout is the result. 

Workplace causes of burnout include:

  • Short-staffing
  • Expecting unreasonable workloads or work hours
  • Offering low rates of pay and lack of appropriate benefits
  • Micromanaging employees
  • Toxic behaviours like workplace bullying
  • Lack of acknowledgment of individual contributions

As nonprofit leaders, we are responsible for both the personal and the organizational issues. 

What can you, as the leader of an organization, do to reduce burnout and interrupt the burnout cycle?

Learn to recognize the common signs of burnout

Burnout at the individual level looks like:

  • Lack of motivation
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Cynicism, irritability, impatience, disillusionment
  • Trouble sleeping
  • Over-reliance on alcohol or drugs
  • No job satisfaction
  • Headaches, stomach issues and other physical complaints
  • Low or no energy

Address the underlying causes of burnout

We need to go deeper than symptoms to stop the burnout cycle. 

It’s incumbent on leaders to be curious about what is at the root of burnout and to address the specifics. Taking the time (and money) to invest in fixing root causes saves the expense of backfilling vacancies that are the result of people being off work due to  burnout. 

Some examples of root causes:

Workloads: can we reorganize or reassign responsibilities? Can we streamline or eliminate tasks? Do we need to stop or downsize some programs or services to meet our staff capacity?

Compensation: are our compensation levels appropriate? What benefits can we offer that require less cash such as additional (paid) time off? 

Toxic behaviours & difficult relationships: do we have a clear zero tolerance policy for workplace bullying and harassment? What additional training or support do team members need to manage toxic behaviours and difficult relationships? What courageous conversations are we avoiding at the expense of everyone and the benefit of a few?

Change behaviours and mindsets to stop the cycle

One common misconception leaders often have is the belief that the best solution for burnout is rest. But, if individuals return from rest and go back to the same workload, with the same mindset, and the same behaviors, they will get the same result. Repeated burnout.

This is true for each of the causes of burnout.

When I look at the burn-out cycle through the Mental Fitness lens, I see how many leaders make decisions driven by their negative inner voices that exacerbate rather than relieve burnout. 

We can call these inner voices by many names; in Mental Fitness we call them Saboteurs because of their negative impact on our mindset.

When we let Saboteurs, like Stickler, Controller or Hyper-Achiever, influence our mindset and our decision-making, we contribute to employees going around the burnout cycle.

How?

  • A leader’s Stickler Saboteur might say that rules are inviolable and can never be changed. 
  • An employee’s Controller Saboteur could be micro-managing their subordinates. 
  • Hyper-Achiever Saboteurs are constantly looking for the next “shiny object” to chase and driving themselves and others to exhaustion.

Recognizing these negative inner voices and learning to shift from a negative to a positive mindset is a crucial step in stopping the burnout cycle in your organization or stopping you from slipping back into burnout.

Conclusion

As leaders, we are responsible for providing physically and mentally healthy workplaces.

To effectively reduce burnout and prevent the burnout cycle, leaders need to revisit the causes and solutions to burnout at both individual and organizational level.

I invite leaders who are motivated to break the cycle of burnout – for your employees, your organization and yourself – to enroll in the Mental Fitness for Nonprofit Leaders course so you can tame those saboteurs. The next course starts in January. Join the waitlist here.

Can’t wait until January? Start now with my new Bust Stress: Mental Fitness Bootcamp starting November 6. Sign up here.

Burnout is really costly for everyone. Let’s acknowledge the TRUE price of it.

The ROI of Leadership Coaching: Three Benefits for Employers

Great employers know the benefits of investing in their people. Increased productivity, high levels of employee engagement and retention, and increased revenues are three benefits frequently noted when thoughtful employee development programs are put in place. 

Leadership coaching is one of the many options organizations have to invest in the development of their people. Before authorizing leadership coaching in their organizations, prudent decision-makers will have many questions about the benefits and costs related to coaching. Before I jump to the ROI of leadership coaching, let’s first clarify what it is and what it isn’t.

 What is Leadership Coaching?

Leadership training is instruction on the competencies that leaders need to succeed. The purpose of leadership coaching is to enhance the skills, knowledge, and abilities of leaders so they can be more effective in leading and managing their teams. Leadership coaching complements training by providing a space for individuals to explore their personal leadership style, learn to regulate emotional responses, and uncover the recurring patterns and limiting beliefs that block or limit professional success.

Organizations that offer coaching and have built coaching cultures say their top reasons to make coaching a key part of their leadership development strategy are:

  • Improved communication skills
  • Improved teamwork
  • Improved decision making
  • Increased productivity
  • Increased employee engagement

While leadership coaching is often perceived as expensive, the return on investment (ROI) can be significant. A Price Waterhouse Cooper’s survey reported that the average ROI return for companies that invested in coaching was seven times their initial investment and more than 25% of survey respondents reported ROI of 10 to 49 times the initial investment. These are impressive numbers. Let’s look at three ways that the ROI of leadership coaching can be assessed.

  1. Improved Performance

One way to evaluate the ROI of leadership coaching is by measuring the improvement in performance of leaders and their teams. 

The International Coaching Federation (ICF) found that 70% of individuals who received leadership coaching reported improved work performance, while 86% of companies reported recouping their investment in coaching through improved productivity and profitability.

Coaching helps leaders develop emotional intelligence (EQ) and self-knowledge needed to lead their teams effectively. Leaders with high EQ are better able to motivate and manage their teams to higher levels of performance. Communications improve and team conflict may be reduced.

  1. Employee Recruitment and Retention

Another way to evaluate the ROI of leadership coaching is by measuring the impact of coaching on employee recruitment and retention. Organizations that offer coaching demonstrate to current employees and candidates that they are committed to the ongoing training and development of their staff. This improves retention of top and high potential employees and helps to attract the best qualified candidates. 

For example, stress is cited as a key driver of poor performance and employee absenteeism. Positive Intelligence Inc., where I received my coaching credentials, reported that 100% of employees of a US-based health and wellness company managed their stress better after completing a coaching program. 

Research conducted by the ICF found that organizations that provided coaching to their employees had a 21% higher retention rate than those that did not provide coaching. The study also found that coaching was the second most effective tool for retaining employees, behind only salary increases. A study conducted by the Harvard Business Review found that replacing an employee can cost an organization 6-9 months’ salary on average. Reducing turnover leads to significant cost savings.

Coaching can help leaders develop the skills needed to create a positive work environment, which can lead to higher levels of employee engagement and satisfaction. As a result, employees may be more likely to stay with the organization, reducing turnover costs while the organization increases its ability to attract the best candidates.

  1. Increased Revenue

Coaching can also lead to increased revenue for organizations. By improving the performance of leaders and their teams, organizations are able to increase their productivity, efficiency, and profitability. Additionally, coaching can help leaders identify new opportunities for growth and development, leading to increased revenue streams.

For example, a study conducted by the ICF found that coaching led to an average revenue increase of 46% for organizations. The study also found that coaching was the second most effective tool for increasing revenue, behind only strategic planning.

Conclusion

The ROI of leadership coaching can be sizable. Organizations that implement leadership coaching can expect to see benefits such as improved performance, increased employee retention, and increased revenues. While the upfront cost of coaching may be significant, evaluation of the long-term benefits should outweigh the costs, making it a worthwhile investment in an organization’s leadership development. 

If you are curious about how leadership coaching could benefit you or your organization, contact me to explore the value of leadership coaching with you.

Originally published in The Osborne Group Insights Blog

Do you keep your promises to yourself? Two ideas to make it easier.

Isn’t this spring crazy busy? I see you and how many conferences, grant applications, launches and openings you’ve got going on. I hope you’re taking time to stop and smell the hyacinths!

In March, I was busy getting ready for the next cohort of Mental Fitness for Nonprofit Leaders.  I did a happy dance on April 1 as the new program got underway. I’m so proud of every person who commits to learning how to overcome stress, negativity, or overwhelm so they can live the unique life they crave for themselves.

Speaking of commitments, I recently made a commitment to myself to up my writing game by sending twice monthly newsletters. Writing can trigger all kinds of saboteur voices trying to hold me back. On the other hand, I really don’t like the disappointment I feel when I let a saboteur voice distract me from emailing you!

Another thing I don’t like? Strawberries in salad. What a waste of a good strawberry. I’m working on improving my health with more veggies and exercise but a person has to draw a line somewhere. But that’s enough negativity about those misguided salads.

Let me share something I do like:  I like keeping my promises to myself!

I like remembering to prep the week’s meals on Sunday, to write thank you notes, and pay my bills on time. In the past, strong Avoider and Restless saboteurs could divert my attention or prevent me from even getting started.

I find that regular PQ Reps* through the day help keep me focused on the important things and stacking my habits means I don’t have to make constant fatiguing decisions.** I now do a few PQ Reps when I first wake up and whenever I plug in the kettle. I’ve recently stacked getting a latte on Saturday morning with going to the gym. No gym, no coffee!

Do you find it hard to stick to the promises that you make to yourself?

What tricks or tips do you have to keep you focussed on your commitments?

*Curious about PQ Reps? Here is a short video of me demonstrating a PQ Rep.

** Decision fatigue is a real thing! Read about decision fatigue here.

Transform Restless to Relaxed in Five Steps

I have a foolproof way to know when spring is coming. No, I don’t rely on Groundhog Day or Easter chocolates appearing on store shelves.

It’s the first day that someone in British Columbia posts a photo of daffodils. The collective moaning and kvetching from the rest of Canada is deafening. Everyone else feels grumpy as heck that we’re still up to our knees in snow.

I’m as anxious as anyone for spring to arrive. By early March, I’m feeling intense spring fever. I’m restless for primroses and tulips to appear in gardens, for eliminating a layer or two of clothing, and for a green vegetable that is not frozen peas. I’m ready for the fresh energy that spring heralds.

That spring restlessness that many of us feel can be a good thing; a sign that we are ready to leave winter hibernation behind us. Or it can be saboteur energy that distracts us from what is important, hampers our productivity, and prevents us from working on our priorities. That kind of energy is exhausting not energizing.I’ve noticed that whenever I have an upcoming writing deadline, the Restless Saboteur pulls my focus away from the concentration needed for writing. I’ll suddenly be cleaning my home, cooking elaborate meals, and tidying my workspace.Unchecked, Restless Saboteurs can be the cause of a busy yet unproductive day. The Restless Saboteur will have us multi-tasking and looking for quick hits of dopamine. People with Restless habits can be impatient and will avoid unpleasant feelings or situations by switching focus constantly. They might be driven by a feeling that life is too short and that without constant movement they’ll miss out. FOMO may well have been coined by someone experiencing a Restless Saboteur.

When you suspect you are in Restless mode, try these five steps to transform restless to relaxed:

  1. Notice what kind of energy you are bringing to the busyness. Is it scattered or focused? Nervous or calm?
  2. Whatever you are doing, bring as much focus as you can to the task. If you are dusting, notice the tiny particles of dust as they lay still or move in the air. If you are exercising, notice the pace of your breathing, the feel of a specific muscle as you move. Do some PQ Reps on touch, hearing, or breath.
  3. From this place of attention, ask yourself if this activity is a priority for your day or a distraction? If a distraction, notice any feelings that come up when you think about the priority.
  4. Now bring your focus to that priority activity. Imagine yourself doing that activity in great detail. Imagine how you want to feel as you are doing the task—capable, happy, focused? Next imagine how you want to feel when you complete the task—proud, calm, reliable?
  5. When you are ready, move to your priority activity. If it is a big task, break it down to small parts and tackle one at a time. Repeat the above steps as needed until you are acting from a place of relaxed focus.

Thanks to consistent Mental Fitness practices, I’m gradually gaining self-command over Restlessness. After a short session of PQ Reps, I’m able to transform the high energy and creativity that underlies Restless behaviours into focused action on my work.

The Mental Fitness system gives my clients the tools to transform their insights into new habits and their restlessness into productive relaxed action.

What would you do with more time?

What would you do with more time?

In the early 70’s, I wanted nothing more than to be Laurie Partridge (aka Susan Dey.) She was everything: beautiful, talented (she sang! she played keyboards!) and oh so cool. As the oldest sibling in our tribute band, I imagined myself Laurie Partridge, taking centre stage, playing keyboards in a groovy poncho. Alas, life as a pop star was not in my future.

The truth is that I loved the idea of being a musician; I just didn’t love the idea of studying the piano. I wasn’t in love with practicing or learning to read music. I was not willing to put in the time to learn because I just didn’t value being a musician enough. So many other things were actually more important to me and I spent my time there.

One of the things I commonly hear during coaching sessions is how difficult it is to find time for the things we say we want to do. Take Patricia, for example. She has been struggling to find enough time for exercise. Work and family place many demands on Patricia but when she looked more closely at how she was spending her time it was clear that time was not the real issue.

As a person with a strong Pleaser saboteur, Patricia would routinely abandon her exercise time for friends’ or family demands. She would even pre-empt her plans if she anticipated someone needed help. By focusing in on the underlying issue of wanting to please others, Patricia saw that she had a belief that she was not “allowed” to put her own needs first and that to do so might mean losing their love and affection.

Once this mistaken belief was brought to the surface, Patricia was able to retire it in favour of keeping her fitness commitments. She is motivated to keep fit knowing that exercise adds to her happiness and supports her value of being helpful to friends and family.  It is easier to find the time when what we want to do connects to our values.

What do you long to do if you had more time? What gets in the way of your desires and dreams?

Coaching is an effective way to explore your values and what is preventing you from living the life you dream of. Schedule some time with me and we can explore how coaching can work for you.